I have a 4 1/2 month old baby girl, and with all my heart I want to be the best mom I can for her. Before she was born I ate carefully, thinking about what would be best for her. I seriously considered cloth diapers because they might be the best. I spent too long trying to pick out a stroller carseat combo. Who has enough time, or brain power while pregnant, to interpret every safety standard and suggestion while also trying to match a damn color scheme? That nightmare ended when I let my mom, who is a very good mom already, pick it out. The pediatrician tells me different things to do or watch for each time we visit, and every set of grandparents has their criteria for being a good mom too.
It is exhausting trying to do it all. And I know I'm not doing it all right.
So I breastfeed. I know, 100% that it is the best food I can give Little C. There is nothing better for her. This one thing I am doing is...perfect.
That said, there is one other thing I am doing to be a good mom: getting healthier!
We (the husband has jumped on the fitness train too) need to be around, and be able to run, jump, and play with Little C in order to be good parents.
Enter
Animal, Vegetable, Miracle and the jogging stroller.
In conclusion, we will be eating organic produce this summer from a local farm via a CSA (Community
Supported Agriculture), and I will be training for a half marathon in October.
This is a good tidbit from the book:
"If I had to quantify it, I'd say 75 percent of my crucial parenting effort has taken place during or surrounding the time our family convenes for our evening meal. I'm sure I'm not the only parent to think so. A survey of National Merit scholars--exceptionally successful eighteen-year-olds crossing all lines of ethnicity, gender, geography, and class--turned up a common thread in their lives: the habit of sitting down to a family dinner table."
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This is my mom. I love her. We ate dinner together most nights, and she made those dinners. |